Hi Im sorry for this long post,

I'm dating someone with depression and anxiety, we've been together for almost 2 years now. Every winter her mental state gets worse, we call it the dark months, and for the last month she has been telling me that she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore. She says she still loves me but she is not in love anymore.

On top of that, we've been having a hard time because I had to move an hour away for work, but only for a year. She recently tried to break up because she can see that she is hurting me. When Im not physically with her she doesnt seem to care about me as much, which she has also stated herself.

When we're together in person I can see and feel that she still loves me and that she seems like she still wants this relationship. Its hard to believe her that she actually wants to break up because she is sleeping from 9am-9pm, sometimes more. And because she is sleeping for so long she is also not eating enough.

I don't want to leave her in this tough time because I know we have something special. But I'm also not sure if she really just doesn't want our relationship anymore or if it is because of her mental state. I've been giving her more space but I'm not sure if its the right thing to do or if I should just listen and let the relationship end. What should I do?