Hi Rd, I think your thoughts are valid. Any friendship (which is a type of relationship) is a mutual effort. Granted, their are exceptions. There are also plenty of people who don't know what a real friendship is. She may be in that category.

I have a lot of friends where I set up things to do the majority of the time. And some friends I have set up things to do with me the majority of the time. Yet, in the end, despite who sets up what, the feeling of friendship is mutual.