When your friends with someone with bipolar, I've bipolar and so have they...when they dissapear during depressive phases, it takes a huge toll on me emotionally. I worry, I stress, I wonder if there's anything I can do and hours seem like years whilst I wait for them to make contact again.

What's normal in a double best friend bipolar situation. Can both be codependant? Why do I fear they're never coming back to the point its the last thing I check at night and first thing in the morning, or they've lost interest. I'm trying to work out what's normal, just missing a friend, and what's codependant with bipolar insecurities attached.

Can someone help please?