I have to agree with rose. You came on here to ask for different opinions yet you reject and argue about every suggestion as well as finding excuses. It seems like you came on here to get encouragement to stay with this man and other opinions just upset and anger you.

You can certainly do that (not sure how if he wants to break up though).

You seem to have lots of excuses for not accomplishing and not pursuing your dreams. First it’s because you don’t have any passions then because you are too upset over this man etc You also contradict yourself a lot.

You think of not having kids because you want a career, yet not only you don’t have any passions or dreams you also don’t think it’s even reasonable to love a job.

You don’t want kids because you want to travel yet it doesn’t sound you can afford traveling as you have low paid job and it doesn’t sound like you two travel much at all etc etc You seem very confused and it’s ok but I just don’t understand why it’s such a priority to have this man if you are so unsettled in other areas of your life.

You aren’t pursuing your dreams because you are an immigrant, which is typically the other way around: finally being able to pursue your dreams if you could not before. You can’t pursue a career but you uproot yourself and pursued a man. So many confusions and contradictions in your life yet you want to decide now to marry this man?

Why having him is so important at 24? You said others marry young. Of course but many young people do know what they want (my nephews wife was 21 when they got married but she knows what she wants). You don’t know what you want and your life isn’t settled. Marrying this man isn’t going to magically fix everything

Work on your life. Sure date him or others but why this rush to marry?