Per having a career and enjoying it too, a circus clown once gave me this bit of sage advice:
"Find a career you love, and you won't work a day in your life."
Basically, you can find a job you love and when you do, you'll feel like you're not even working at all. You'll enjoy it to the point of it being a pleasure activity.
You can have kids, and have a career you enjoy.
Olive, what insights have you gained thus far? Maybe you could discuss this life altering decision with a therapist or counselor. I find discussing things that upset me, even to the point of throwing up, with such a person very insightful and helps me to reach a conclusive decision much easier.
I couldn't help but notice that you said you moved to be with your boyfriend, and that you are also an immigrant. Forgive me if I missed this somewhere in your many posts, but did you move from your native country to a foreign one to be with him?
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