I am dating the most wonderful guy who has given me no reason to be paranoid yet I am. I hate to go blaming others, but all I can think about it how my ex-boyrfiend of 7 years really screwed with my head. I felt like he never really wanted me, simply becuase he really didn't most of the time. It was a relationship of convience. I know this is a different time and a different man but I'm always afraid the same thing is going to happen. I don't want my paranoia to ruin us. Should I try to work this out on my own or talk to him about it?