Hmmm.....I've experienced this with my ex........LOL! VERY frustrating.

My mom is like that too - kind of afraid to confront people after a certain amount of time has passed.....I just lost a $3500.00 4 wheeler to the same kind of behavior.

I say he just has to stand up to them! Took me a long time to stop getting run over by others! But I had to do it!

Hope he gets better at his collections skills!