My son... and I are very "private" people... and I don't "dive into his life.. and he doesn't "dive" into mine... respect.. I guess...

He.. did mention to me that he his ex g/f was going to join him.. in therapy..with him...

And.. after considerable thought... I want what is best for him.. and if this is what will help... then I want that for him too.. and I will continue to pay the co-pays.. he is 23.. with his own insurance..

I have my hour with the T... but.. when discussing it with my T... just felt.. "violated".... this ex-g/f... was very abusive to me... she.. has some severe problems.. which is why... she is an EX... but... they have known each other since pre-school... so also a very long friendship..

I guess.. I lost.. the "connective" feeling with my T... after that happenned.. and.. trying to re-build... hasn't worked...

I don't feel "safe"... in that office... and never will again....

Since my relationship with my T... is destroyed... it just makes sense for my son to continue... and for me.. to quit... rather than have my son transfer to someone else....

so... lots.. of mourning.. I guess..

Thank you everyone for your support... it is very much appreciated..