Hi momofive,

Welcome to PC.

I am sorry your marriage has become so challenging. I agree you are describing emotional abuse. I think couples counseling would be most helpful; yet, if he won't participate, go to counseling on your own.

I hope you find the information and the support you may be seeking.
Please make yourself at home. Jump in wherever you feel led to do so.

Your first 5 posts are approved by a moderator before they appear. After 5 approved posts, you will also have access to chatrooms and to the Private Messaging (PM) system.

I hope to see you around the forums.

Wild Coyote