Hi everyone. Thanks for your responses. I'm still reading through them. I skimmed so far, and just wanna say, the part about him calling me "kiddo," while I was like, "hm, ok." It didn't weird me out as much as his text message, which just felt really over the line even if just joking. I dunno. I was mostly though, upset with the way my mom responded to me and I don't know why I had such a strong reaction today. She does it a lot. But I don't know why I was so upset today. Coming on here and venting, is a form of self care for me, too. Perhaps I should come on here and talk about certain stuff before I talk to her. Ps: Divine, I read yours. He had given me his number when he was telling me about his job place having openings. He said to contact him if I had any questions and I texted him with a thank you, so he had my number. I felt ok doing that. That was a while ago. Like maybe 3 or 4 months ago.