Quote:
Originally Posted by MRT6211
I’ve been there before. I know it’s tough. If you’re really not feeling a connection with your new T, perhaps it’s time to explore other Ts? Just a thought. I learned the hard way to always trust my gut. If I feel like it’s not the right fit early on, it probably isn’t. :/
|
I do feel a connection with new T just not in the same way as I did with exT. I guess with ex T there was a lot of maternal transference and I wanted her to take care of me. I thought she was perfect and would know how to fix everything and there was a certain comfort gained from thinking that even though it was unhealthy and ultimately painful.