Thanks for sharing what's going on. Many here will have been through similar trials & would offer support based off their own experiences, but knowing stuff helps, too.

I'm glad you started on the meds again - it's a positive step forwards, so congratulate yourself!

As for that neighbour - sadly it's the thoughtless, unnecessary cruelty of folks like that that consistently cause me to rate humanity in general, as barely above disappointing. Blessed are the ignorant, for they know not what they're missing...