What is it about me. I cannot inspire people to be loyal to me. I think it is because I very much have a fair and balanced approach to life. If someone is in the wrong.. even a friend, I am on board letting them get in trouble. I mean, I would warn them but if they did it anyway I would be like "well I told you." but it seems like people want me to be on their side anyway.

And that those who are considered "charismatic" are simply winning to lie to you vigorously.

Thus people aren't loyal to me because they suspect hey won't get loyalty back.

Anyone else feel they don't get loyalty easly?