Loyalty just so happens to have been quite a heated discussion in my area, where I live.
Is it loyalty to fall down the rabit hole together? What if you have plans for your own life that doesn't involve getting into trouble? If they cannot respect that about you, is that the type of loyalty that you crave?
The general consensus is that at the end of the day, loyalty to self is probably all you'll get anyways, so why focus on it?