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Originally Posted by unaluna
I told my t today that i am starting to feel love. At first i thought i meant for him, but then i thought i meant for me, but then i thought, its really just kinda overall.
This tea thing just feels withholding. Okay, some ts are like that. Maybe thats what some people can use. But i needed more from my t.
Not his coffee. I had some once, like a quarter mug, and i was awake for two nights! But i knew i was always welcome to it, and he will sometimes take a sip of my soy cap.
Yeah, magic water my butt. No offense. If a man said that, i would question his connection with reality, but then i tend to be a sexist pig sometimes. And i just plain dont want to hear it from a woman. I guess in either case, i would be out the door, cuz how do i know there is not fungus in those rocks or whatever?
Are you trying to get blood from a stone? In t, and or IRL? DBT might help you SEE that, but not really FIX any attachment issues. Find a warm puppy t  |
Hahaha. The magic water thing is my juvenile jackassery. We are lucky enough to live in a place where the water is safe and delish and full of good vibes right from the tap. She has never made any claims about her water filter. If she has woo-woo beliefs beliefs about it she's kept them entirely to herself.
But, yeah. The no tea. It does feel withholding, doesn't it? You'd feel that way too? And like your T's coffee, it's mainly about knowing I'm welcome to it. Whether I actually imbibe it is of lesser importance.