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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
"I do know she has a heart there. I may have ASD and some tiny "holes" in figuring out signs, but I have a gift regarding relationships with specific women. I can tap into their hearts, happened a few times
And I know another thing - she LOVED that feeling, despite showing discomfort
Despite her usual cold personality she was TRYING to reach out to me, like a dark angel trying to give a bit of light. It's like a light covered in shadows, nothing but a mask or a mirror"
This is incredibly disturbing. It's the type of statement that would have me thinking about a restraining order if I was her.
You deserve to be loved, but this particular scenario is extremely unhealthy. I hope you do not give up and continue to seek out help. While you obsess over the wrong woman, you could very well pass over the right one.
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If you want to help a stranger you don’t even know then go ahead
I will continue to seek support and encouragement instead of people who think against me
Shazerac - Speaking of past tense, why are you looking at things I said in the past?
I do know they are contradictive, but that’s exactly what happens when you stumble upon such personality. One of the relationship traits are they make it hard to forget about them
So if you really want me to move on from the past, then you need to look at what I say in the now and not what I said in the was
And I am not attempting to argue or decline advice. If you want to understand and help me then you have to listen to me
SadGirl - You have your right to think what I said seems disturbing to you, but it’s doing the opposite of helping and supporting me, because you’re literally supporting
her when empathizing with her