I have an elderly sister who triggers me something fierce. She can't understand why I don't come to visit (she lives with other people in a house where they don't like me or my son) and refuses to acknowledge the fact that she has driven away everyone in the family with her negative energy. I feel AWFUL for her because she just lost her son in January and was evicted from her assisted living facility in the same month, but the latter was because of some bad decisions that she made. Her entire life is a mess because of bad decisions she's made. SHe's lied to me, lied about my son, trashed me on Facebook and I can't trust her. I can't handle her problems and my own too. Maybe that makes me a terrible sister and I deserve all her crap, but I can't help the way I feel.