Okay, my apologies, I misinterpreted your post. You say you did warn them but they went ahead and did it anyway, and then you said, 'I told you'. Okay, I think that's where you're going wrong, with the - 'I told you.' The person who inspires others loyalty doesn't rub their noses in it, so to speak. But who knows - it could be 1001 different things, really.