I'm not going to tell you to move on--sounds like you are living in a mine-field. I hope you can not feel those bombs as much by realizing that those statements say WAY more about the folks saying it--than you. The fact that they would say them to you--says WAY more about them. Try not to absorb them. Find your brilliant bits and hold on to them in your mind. I am so sorry you are being attacked like this...