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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I think they would. I am not sexually active at the moment but I sometimes hang out on those adult chats and if I bring it up like it is sexy, it is a total turn off to guys. As is any talk of you pleasuring yourself. They want to hear how big their member is, that is all.
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you've only experienced a certain type of guy apparently because I know for a fact there are plenty of guys that would not look at it that way or be turned off by your bringing it up as something sexy. I am quite pleased when a woman I am talking to for any reason is not against or even is into it because I personally don't find anything wrong with it.
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I think a lot of people would be surprised I watch porn. I personally don't see anything wrong with it. I think like most women a little goes a long way some stuff is just physically gross to me.
You must be from the south because up here in Northeast there no one is really anti-porn. We are too busy dealing with secret sex cults.
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I think your latter statement about culture is limited information at best I lived both in the north and here in the south. I find at best that it's an individual choice and sure there are some trends but we have to take those with a grain of salt. I have found that people against porn varies in all cultures too much to really take it into account too much but then when I am conversing with someone about such things, I'm really not considering trends of any kind like that. I'm also very much against relying to any significant degree on statistical analysis when it comes to social related issues. but I digress.
I think most people may be shocked that you look at porn because you're a female and I have to admit I've grown up with the idea that women don't find such things interesting or attractive and am still adjusting to the idea that women watch it too.
In general porn is a private thing that even if we feel internally ok about it, we keep it mostly to ourselves and therefore when people openly state they think it's ok (outside of forums like this) people either act shocked (half the time) or really are shocked due to the reasons just stated.