That's my number fear is that my husband could be accused of something wrong and I think he fears that as well. I can't imagine how weirded out he is.
Personally, I know this will sound crazy, but I've gotten weird vibes around the little girls uncles. I also think the way my friends father speaks to his daughter is VERY weird...I couldn't imagine my dad talking to me the way he speaks to them. But, I don't know for sure and I can't accuse anybody...it's to serious to make assumptions.
I will be talking to somebody who's acknowledged with this sort of thing and she'll give me suggestions on what to do without telling anybody.
I feel sorry for both the little girl. My husband and I have befriended the children, taken them places...places they've never been like camping and Chuck E Cheese. These children have no idea about the world outside their home and we enjoyed showing them what it was like....makes me realize how lucky my babies are and how soft my husband actually is under his tough exterior....he just wanted to help and I just wanted to help and now it's gotten weird on us. Sadly for the children this minute of a situation will change everything.