True Perna...

if we both said "hey, something ain't right and this is why" then it looks better. My husband would be difficult to convince though. Maybe if we were all sitting around and relaxing then we could nonchalantly bring it up and briefly give the story. She knows my husband well and actually has had him babysit while she ran somewhere while I was at work before...so she does trust him. I remember my husband saying "this is so weird because she had never did anything like that before". So maybe something happened to her recently and the behavior before was just from talking dirty around her. IDK...I wish I did, so I could do something. I'd really hate to find out it's somebody with in our circle....my husband's quiet and laid back but I've seen him put the whoop down before and I'd fear for whoever it is. I think deep down, like me, he loves those kids too or he wouldn't have said that. Or maybe it's the general jist of it...all molesters deserve some *** whoopin.

I'm not as worried about anybody accusing my husband as much as he is....because everybody knows him.

Since the mother had experienced molestation in her childhood you'd figure she's notice her daughters behavior....but she's not like me when it comes to mothering and doesn't pay much attention to them. Also, the little girl spends a lot of time at her Maw maw's more then she does at home....the uncles still live there was why I mentioned that. The women doesn't even have electricity or heat, so I don't know why she continues to send her daughter there. *shrugs*

My husband will be home soon, we'll sit and discuss this the minute we have peace....which may not be till after I get home from class and talk to my Soc. professor about this. Either way something has to be said.

If all comes down to me bringing it up on my own I think I'll mention my concern and list other reasons and just not bring that story up..because I did promise my husband I wouldn't.