Des, what I found out in my own therapy as a molested child is that a three year old doesn't have a clue what sex and/or the genitals are about. Someone had to teach me, as well as those little kids, what sex is about! It is NOT normal behavior for a three year old!

I hope CPS has more on the ball where you live than where I live. They cause more problems here than they are worth!

Did you say your friend was sexually abused as a child? Could it have been her brothers?? At any rate, if CPS is worth their salt, it should be THEY that investigate who is doing this.

It sure is a tough one to call. Tread carefully as you go!