We're having to deal with that issue with two young adults. Our daughter said they were moving out this summer, postponed to this winter. Now don't know what's happening.

We're meeting with boyfriend's parents and their friends next week to make a drop-dead date.

They are the reason we are still in this hellhole of a house, and we gave them about three years to launch so far. Daughter used to have a job, and still needs one. I told her if she doesn't get one soon she may not go to the anime convention in August. She knows that but hasn't shown any action on her part. Her boyfriend is the opposite: works lots of hours at a supermarket but is not doing well in school.