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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
I do normally email Sunday nights, and I do normally tell her about my week. I'm not questioning whether or not I should email her. I'm questioning what I should or shouldn't write about. I know for sure not to pry into her business and not to bring up the misunderstanding. I just don't know if I should be simple or explain things are bothering me.
I don't think I'm being clear enough. Do I write her:
T, I miss you.
Or
T, I miss you and I'm struggling.
Or
T, I miss you. X,y,z happened this week.
Should I say that I hope she's doing better? That the misunderstanding is specifically bothering me, but not go into detail?
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Honestly, you know your T best. Me, personally, would just tell her I miss her and leave it at that. You said that if you talk about your week you're likely to discuss the misunderstanding which she asked you not to mention until you can talk about it in person. If you want to tell her you're struggling, I think that would be OK, too.
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