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Old Apr 27, 2018, 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by healinginprogress View Post
Honestly, you know your T best. Me, personally, would just tell her I miss her and leave it at that. You said that if you talk about your week you're likely to discuss the misunderstanding which she asked you not to mention until you can talk about it in person. If you want to tell her you're struggling, I think that would be OK, too.
I agree that you know your T best. I can't think of a time when my T told me not to talk about something or to wait to talk about it, so I'm not sure how I would respond in this situation. I guess maybe do what you would usually do. I do think you've struggled a lot in the past with assuming your T is upset or likely to respond negatively, and it's always been okay before, right? So my guess is that you'll get this smoothed over as soon as you two can communicate normally again.