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Old Apr 27, 2018, 07:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ElectricManatee View Post
I agree that you know your T best. I can't think of a time when my T told me not to talk about something or to wait to talk about it, so I'm not sure how I would respond in this situation. I guess maybe do what you would usually do. I do think you've struggled a lot in the past with assuming your T is upset or likely to respond negatively, and it's always been okay before, right? So my guess is that you'll get this smoothed over as soon as you two can communicate normally again.
Yeah. You're probably right. It's just hard sitting on feelings. And it's hard when you had a T who left you. Ex-T still affects my relationship with my T. But current T and I have quickly worked through every issue so far. I guess that's why it's bothering me too: she's never told me to not talk about something.
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