i now know the leg pains were *because* i didn't want to go to bed. If someone changed the game plan (like for a movie) they'd stop hurting instantly. The pain was in the form of terrible charlie horses - probably because my body was tensing up for the nightly fight - even when my mind couldn't process it.
Anyway...
In my current work place there are 3 major triggers that I am trying to avoid. one happens to be the name of one of my perps.
awesome.