I too have been depressed and sleeping a lot and staring blankly at the wall. I have made myself cook but that is about all. My kids that are still at home are 16 and 12 so they can fend for themselves. My 12 year old was at camp this week. But I have gone to bed at 7 before my 16 yr.old was even home from school/ practice. I feel guilty as well but don't feel like I have the energy to do anything about it. I reached out to someone but they didn't seem to care that I needed them so it has been really rough.