I think in general society is way too uptight about porn. I have a couple videos I love that I've watched with friends. I'm not kidding either. I wont lie, I quite love porn and there is so much good stuff out there. So hot.
It's up there with judgement on going to the strippers. I pole dance for fun so my 35th birthday I took a group of girl friends pole dancing and then let a bunch of friends at the strippers. I'm bi so I enjoyed a lap dance. It was awesome. Thankfully my friends are either as open as me or are just open minded.
The point? Life's short. Have fun.