She is married to a doctor and has a very full life - martial arts classes, children, travel, gourmet cooking. Well, how nice. Good for her. Guess she doesn't need me. Guess I was feeling worthless for not being as (successful, rich, blessed, etc) as she is.

It's not a winning game to play. I have to count my own blessings. I don't have to feel guilty because I don't DO as much as she does. I can't. She doesn't understand.