So and I guess this goes back to the loyalty thread but I asked one of the other members to tell me if she was going to the meeting and she hasn't responded. I know she is home because I was out talking to a neighbor and she drove by. I waved. Still nothing. I cannot believe it. It must mean that she isn't on my side. I find it stunning. She would prefer to back a rude crude idiot who bosses her around and goes behind her back to stop what she wants. What really annoys me is that this flap was all over what SHE told me to do.

i don't know what I should do.. I feel like I should quit the board... but I also know that quitting the board makes it so I can't get my maintenance requests done. Or have any say.

I was talking with the other neighbor and we both agreed it might be time to leave... we don't want to leave.. I know it will cost me money, but there is a certain attitude here that is only growing that is wrong. I don't think it is going to change.