after eight years of promising to never leave me, my first t said she didnt have the skills to hel me any more (I hVe DID). she dumped me one night. out of nowhere, i did not know it was coming and there were no clues. it wrecked my life for several years and made things much worse, i had no in
ut in the decison, and she left me abandoned. She did not offer any ending sessions to discuss it. it was just DONE.
It was very harmful. Took me years to get over.
It took over two years to find a new therapist. But my new therapist has been amazing, and worth the wait, and way way better than first t ever was. at the time inthought first t was great. but compared to my second t, she knew nothing.