T,
I keep thinking back to the thing you said when we were talking about boundaries. We both agreed that I needed them to feel safe, and that it was unhelpful in the long term when others broke them. You said something about you maintaining boundaries meaning that I might want something that you won't do (I don't remember exactly how you phrased it) but we'll be able to talk about that want/desire without acting on it.
Knowing that makes me feel safe, but I'm guessing that means I'm never going to be able to get you to hold me, right? Damn.