Hi everyone,

Thanks for all your support as I've whined nearly continuously for the past month. There was one day when I thought we were okay, but the repair required much more effort. I have realized that repair is a continual process. It's like healing--definitely not linear. It has been quite a ride.

It's amazing that about 10 days ago I thought the relationship was irreparable and there have been moments recently when I've truly been worried about myself/losing myself in the turmoil.

During the process I became keenly aware of how all of this plays out in other relationships in my life. So, the import is not only to recognize the childhood influence but to also see where I am bringing this stuff into my current relationships.

That's how I am using the therapeutic relationship.

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