I also wanted to say that since I crashed a bit last night, I was working on my own recovery today.
I decided to speak up.
I sent my T an email saying that I struggled a lot in our session. Specially when, against my direct request, she whipped out and read allowed portions of the letter I had written. I knew I would struggle if this happened and she did it that way anyway. I said I realized that I couldn't hide behind my writing, but that I would prefer that she try to address this differently next time.
I really felt like talking yesterday but when she did that I just couldn't deal with it. It was like I had all this stuff in my head that I wanted to get out and it suddenly just moved out of reach despite my efforts to say connected to it. Now I have to wait 3 week because she will be on vacation. I wonder if she will read that email to me next time?
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"Joy is your sole's knowledge that if you don't get the promotion, keep the relationship, or buy the house, it's because you weren't meant to.You're meant to have something better, something richer, something deeper, Something More." (Sara Ban Breathnach)
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