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Originally Posted by SeekerSeeking
BlueMerleGirl,
I think one clue as to why it keeps happening is you saying, " . I used to play along and act like it was no big deal and say oh thanks and just tie it." And by that reaction from you, they thought you wanted to know--and are continuing to tell you.
I think you have a couple of choices:
1. Tell them, thanks, but you prefer your shoes untied.
2. Let it go--you can't control what others say and do--only your reaction to it.
I have folks telling me all the time that I am wearing mismatched socks! lol--and I say, "Yeah, I like them unmatched and I have an identical pair at home!"
Namaste'
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Yeah I suppose this makes sense. Like I said I do try to let it go, but it’s just gotten to the point where it is driving me nuts now. It’s not that I even necessarily prefer them Untied, I just don’t care if they are, and it seems like it would come off as rude to say that.