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Sam_I_Am said:
My question is, how do I overcome this?
Is it just going to keep getting worse and worse?

This is the first healthy relationship I've been in...why does it hurt so much?

It's to the point where I almost want to break up with him, not because of anything with him but because I can't stand the feelings it brings about in me

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I am a firm believer in the fact that we are control from within by all resolved wounds from our earlier days...... meaning if you do not heal from your past it will forever resonate old fears and insecurities in you that will disrupt and some times destroy your present relationships.

The secret here is to heal your old wounds of abandonment first, then you will not hurt so much inside..... you will be able to deal with the present relationship with your bf as it should be with out the resonation from the real person hat abandoned you when you were young.

YOUR HOMEWORK:

1.) Name the person (or person's) from your childhood that wounded you.

2.) Read this book for a better understanding of what you are going through and why.
... plus, learn how to work on healing the real issue.

http://psychcentral.com/reviews/show...8/cat/5/page/1

3.) Mentally know that the problem is not with your bf, but with your wounded past.