Actually I read this somewhere...and I mostly don’t agree with it. I have a nurturer and she quiets the tears and comforts the pain. When one is really hurting, crying through an emotional breakdown...she takes over and the pain goes away...she’s very comforting.

Why some of the other alters are around...I don’t know. Our sexual alter came out of no where as when our father was checking our temperature down there at about 5. I heard a female voice in my head say ‘oo I like that’. I wondered what??? Then forgot it. I’m more asexual...genderless.

We have more female alters then males for male alters had to emerge to deal with male society being we kept ending up in the construction trade. They had a lot of learning to do and we were very naive through the 20’s.

I don’t see how we can decide what we want an alter to be like being they are there own traits. If I can design an alter...is that really an alter?