Basically just reiterate the need to express yourself socialize it isn't going to always come with it beening implied, so that is why you need to really really understand every concept in therapy. They can come off smug unwilling just as the unwilling worker that had 100% of the efficent and quality. It really depends on what you are dealing with in your social circle though because I'd tell him your being dismissive , but have my plan seek some where else.