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Old May 01, 2018, 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear View Post
Does your therapist have toys, stuffies etc in their office? Is playing ever part of your therapy?

Are your “child parts” allowed to express themselves without judgment?

Do you think that a “good enough” therapist is ever judgmental? (Harsh judgment I’m meaning, not “constructive feedback”)

(Sorry about all the questions )



PS a female therapist I consulted mentioned “breast feeding” - I didn’t trust her though and I’m not sure what she meant..
Hey Fuzzybear,

I love these topics!

I have had therapists who have allowed me to express my little side. Unfortunately those same therapists ended up hurting me in the end and so any progress made with my little parts was ruined. I brought my snuggly teddy bears, wore a diaper under pajamas and wrapped up in a blankie. My therapist said it was okay. I wish she didn't wind up retraumatizing me and being unethical because I think she could have healed me considerably.

I want that experience so bad; to be little and be safe with someone. If only I could find that...

Thanks,
HD7970ghz
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Thanks for this!
Fuzzybear