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Originally Posted by Shazerac
 I’m really sorry you are going through this. I went through that with my daughter. I finally had to stop giving her money after I maxed out all my credit cards and went bankrupt. Just as a cherry on top of the crap cake it tuned out she was using the money to buy drugs. She still blames me for everything wrong with her life and she’s 45 years old. Hang in there as best you can but please, I beg you, take care of yourself. It’s not your fault that your son is like he is!!! |
You can cut the hostility in my home with a knife. Your story has struck a chord with me. I do have to consider that the future could be worse than the present. I got a massage yesterday and am seeing my pdoc today. I was just up knocking on his door to wake him up, it is past 9 am, and he's sound asleep with clean and dirty clothes strewn all over the floor. I asked if he was getting up and he muttered something from underneath the duvet, although I can barely hear even normally. I'm wondering if it is on purpose or some compulsion that he presents his room to me as a filthy mess day after day, year after year. I am really angry. he will sleep till the afternoon today unless i rouse him and that will just be another argument.
I am starting to hope that he really does leave on the 5th as he has been repeating.