It was difficult thing to do, but I went to my teacher. She encouraged that I talk to my friend because the situation it complicated and there's a possibility she may have seen something on TV or have been abused...there's no way for me to know for sure.

Sooo, I talked to my friend leaving out the story about my husband and at first she looked pissed...maybe she is. But the point is it's not about her but her daughter anyway right? She was defensive like I thought. She kept asking me "who do you think would teach her that or do something to her"? She was waiting for me to point the finger...but there was no way I was going to do that. I said, to watch closely and see how she changed around certain people....just watch and keep her at HOME (hint) for awhile. Hopefully she'll take consideration in what I think. Now it is out of my hands.