Actually Esther, as a guy I find I trade just about everything for sex and not the other way around.

Maybe this is a fundamental difference between men and women. For men, sex is often the ultimate goal and not a means to something else. For women things like a good relationship are the goal and sex is a perk along the way?

This is, of course, black and white thinking and I know it wouldn't hold true without many exceptions. Also, none of this is to discount women's interest in/enjoyment of sex. But my gut says there's some truth to this.

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