Thanks again.

I have now seen my doctor after spending the best part of 2 days in tears myself!! I asked my husband to see someone with me, which he says he discussed with his counsellor. She apparently said she did not think we needed to see someone together. Not sure how she decided that as she knows nothing about how I am feeling - perhaps she is psychic!

Anyway I have told him that I will still look for some help for me, even if he does not feel comfortable with seeing someone together. He says he is going to focus on being a good dad to our son and not worrying about what he thinks others think of him for not working outside the home.

Back to a bit of a waiting game I guess, to see if he takes any positive steps towards this.