Ok... while I was on vacation in Hawaii, I was walking the beach with a girl that was also on this trip, and she turned to me and said "OMG did you SEE that girl? She had cuts ALL over, I bet she's a CUTTER" I was soo uncomfortable it made me want to curl up and die. Just the way she said it made me feel horrible. I didn't know what to say so I said "oh. I guess I missed it" and changed the subject. I hope I didn't give myself away, also I was really mad about her insensitiviy. *sigh*