i hope i'm not annoying anyone by continuoulsy posting on the same subject, but this rupture is a big one for me and i just feel like i need to reach out to someone, and since the problem is with T, it can't be her. anyway, small update, i left a message on T's office phone asking if it was ok if we talked, and that this has really taken a toll on me and i really need to talk to her. what i'm going to say is the next mystery. any ideas on how to word all these intense abstract emotions to her and that all i want is her comfort? sorry again for being a pain.