(sp aside ) just need to express

I'd take the advise of trauma group that will get detailed to continue there education we all know this is counterproductive especially at middle age. In our healing journey I need the focus to be on not the self injury alter type that they are, but basically to what the end of it is either super hiding it out what the outcome can be and knowing it through and through. That basically is although your arms reflect mess, that is self injury you don't have to continue especially since intensivety has been on our side so folks wont judge the beggining but what actually is the result. I'd can if I want to help it out their curiosity you can actually have clout even from the leaders he has to get away from the raising mentality on with integrating his side in this . Im sure that is ultimately an intregral part in what the step father and committers of trauma actually done