I just sat down and wrote a personal ad, not to post - but as an exercise to see if I could delineate what it is that I'm looking for, see if I could uncover unhealthy things about me, etc. The "About me" part was a breeze; took a few minutes. The "About them" part took a few weeks. I just finished it yesterday and went over it with my therapist.

I was rushing out the door nearly late for an appointment and cut this short - for clarification, the reason I shared this was simply that I get the 'what the heck am I looking for ' dilemma.