It's not hard to get on a password protected site. How do they actually validate what th poster tells them. They only have the info the poster gives them. I am on a FB page that is a closed group for the ostomy I have. Don't think I would have bothered to join if I never had the surgery but the owner of the page only ones what I told him. I don't think there are many posters here at all that have no mental health or physical health concerns. Don't lose sleep over it!